One year deserves a reflection.

It has been more than a year since I began hosting my own solo events. Only the devil truly knows what compelled me to do so but if I were to name what fuelled me at the time, it would be defiance - quiet, personal & fucking stubborn.

I want to see people for who they are, not for what they offer within kink.

I want more than just play or shallow subtext conversation.

I want people to sit with their thoughts & exist. Together.

This past year hasn’t been without its challenges. There have been moments of doubt, run ins with green-eyed monsters & the occasional misunderstanding about why I do this at all. But those who have supported me along the way know my intentions have never been about status or power. I do this because it inspires me & hopefully others to continue creating safe spaces for the community.

If you want change, be the change.

To everyone who has supported my events & continues to do so, thank you. Your presence, trust & encouragement mean more than I can easily put into words.

There will be more to come! I only continue to ask for a little grace & your continued support, as events are still managed by myself & a small handful of hardworking volunteers during crunch time. If there are any small lapses or mistakes, please know they come from being human, not from a lack of care.

Stay insane & unbothered,

xx Dahlia